You have constantly been made to feel guilty. The consequences include lowered self-esteem, loss of self-worth, and a growing sense of worthlessness. Over time, many victims of emotional abuse sink into depression and struggle to overcome pathological anxiety. Autoimmune disorders may arise. Gaslighting. ... Isolating you from loved ones. ... Using insulting language. ... Yelling. ... Shifting the blame. ... Acting extremely jealous. ... Outbursts of unpredictable anger.